Have you ever thought I’ve raised a Monster?
As families we see the worst in each other. It’s the one place we feel safest to let go and show how we’re really feeling. Home is the place of no filter. But when we see the worst in our children, something happens.
We are instantly filled with dread that somehow we’ve got it wrong, our worst nightmares have become true and there’s not turning back. At times, you can imagine what sort of spouse or parent they will become. It fills you with dread.
At times, you see that they have taken on the worst of you or have been impacted by your mistakes and that causes us to feel sick in the pit of our stomachs.
What we really want to do is create beautiful loving caring human beings in the world that will make us proud that when others will meet them, that as adults they reflect well on our parenting. In fact, this happened to me just this week.
I met an old friend who was telling me that she didn’t know how I did it. She meets my children in public, in their part time jobs and tells me how did you do it, they are so kind and well mannered. How did you do it with five kids and running my own business?
I will tell you in just a moment the main thing I did that created this dream result for me and my clients but before I do, I want to tell you what you must not do. This is more important because there is something we do as parents that creates our worst nightmares in parenting and so it is really important that you understand this and prevent it from happening in your family.
If you are a Committed Muslim Mother who wants a close relationship with your children, who wants professional help to manage your mind and get on top of your parenting and how your child turns out, then book a Sales Consultation to find out about coaching with me. You can book here.
