Do you feel like you’ve already lost your child or you’re losing your child? It’s probably because you can see that your child so disconnected from you that they’ve stopped looking for you or they ignore everything you say.
Whatever has led to this point in your relationship with your child, whether it’s trauma that your family has gone through or because you were going through so much, your child saw the worse version of you, I want you to know my sister, judging yourself will not help you. It is never too late to rekindle that relationship with your child.
As long as you are alive, you can change the way things have become, even if your child says, they don’t want to be close to you. In fact, when they say that, in most cases, it actually means they want it so much but they are scared of getting hurt.
You want it too, but fear of rejection and hurt, holds you back as well. It’s a vicious cycle that has to be broken. My greatest advice to you my sister, is to stop wasting time living with this distance from your child. Instead, decide that it’s time to enjoy closeness with your child.
No matter what they have done or you have done in the past, it’s never too much to come back from. We can all move on. We often need professional help and guidance to do so, but we can definitely get there inshaa Allah.
My unique speciality as a Coach is Repairing Relationships, bringing people back together; parent and child, husband and wife. I do this by working with one party in the relationship and I guide them on the exact steps for, healing, reconciliation and creating healthy relationships.
Relationships are like a cake; you put in one ingredient and the other party puts in one. If you only change your ingredient, you will change the cake that is produced at the end.
